Transplaining is a weekly advice column on Mic that will dive into trans issues, written by yours truly. Anyone is free to send me questions focusing on trans issues.

No topic — from dating to sex to the process of transitioning itself — is off-limits. Although I can’t speak for the entire trans community, I hope to provide an understanding of trans identity through the lens of my own experiences and insights. This column aims to celebrate and clarify what it means to be trans in the 21st century.

If you have a question, feel free to email me at Your information will be kept anonymous. I look forward to hearing back and spilling all the hot, piping tea with you inquisitive boys, girls and nonbinary folks!